It's a special day today. My oldest son R turns twenty-something. I don't want to think of the number too much. It reminds me of my own age, something I've been trying to ignore lately.
It's been a pretty good week, as weeks go. Public schools were off, so traffic was a bit lighter. So was work. There were lots of kids that didn't come for tutoring because they've gone out of town for spring break. It was a bit unnerving, trying to figure out things to do when there was nothing to do. My boss gave me a list of parents he wants to meet with in the next month, so I called a bunch of them to make appointments. I couldn't call all of them; making appointments too far in advance means parents forget and reschedule, and I didn't want that to happen, so I made appointments for next week. That means I had to stretch out the list to make it last as long as possible.
My boss's wife, MM, has again made comments leading me to believe that she wants to spend less time at the office. It bothers me, not because of the work, but because she won't just come out and say it. I was hired, supposedly, to assist her with her work because the workload was overwhelming. What I'm seeing, is that she wants to walk away and leave me in charge.
Honestly, as I observe and learn more, I find that a lot of the workload could easily be lightened by changing some procedures. MM is very set in her ways; she's been doing things a certain way for the past 11 years, and she isn't about to change them, no matter how much better another method might be. I've tried showing her different things she can do to reduce her workload, but she looks at it with total disbelief and shrugs it off. It became a bit frustrating for me this week, especially. We bill our customers once a month for the next month's tutoring sessions. It takes a long time to do, because MM wants all the invoices done by hand, then entered into the computer. The system could easily print off the invoices - I even showed her how simple it is - but she refuses. The part-printed/part-handwritten invoices are so sloppy looking and unprofessional, yet she won't look at any other option. I worked the entire time on that yesterday, and I'm still not finished writing out the invoices. I tried entering the invoices into the computer as I wrote them to show her how much more effective that would be, but she wouldn't accept that either. I wrote them by hand, she checked what I wrote and entered the information into the computer. I just shook my head; she creates more work for herself, but as my daughter wisely pointed out, it's her business. She's the boss. She decides how she wants things done, and I have to do them. But it's no wonder she's burned out, with the amount of extra work she makes for herself.
We had no Awana this Wednesday because of Spring Break, but my son told me there would be youth group. I got out of work, rushed to the house and went to church. Turned out youth group had been cancelled, but my son never got the text message from his youth pastor. Poor Pastor D, he was so apologetic. It was for the best, though. E got some schoolwork caught up. It's been a busy school week but E's done really well. He took his science exam this morning and got a 94%. I was pleasantly surprised; it was a tricky test, and though he studied for it for two days I didn't know if he'd do well. Praise God, he aced the test and we breathed a sigh of relief that it's over!
We had a mini celebration for R's birthday. We gave him his gifts this morning: his sister A got him volume 3 of the cartoon Animaniacs, E got him the game Vanquish for the X-Box, and I got him the complete set of Megaman cartoons on DVD along with the new Kirby game for the WiiU. He was all smiles. Then we went out for lunch to a nice restaurant in town. For dessert, my daughter made these incredible cupcakes. They're dark chocolate with a Nutella frosting. The best part was inside the cupcake - she filled them with an Oreo creme filling she made from a recipe she found on Pinterest. It was like eating an Oreo cookie, but in cupcake form. Oh my word, they are beyond delicious!! She stayed up till late last night after work baking and decorating them, and her brother appreciated it. He even took some to his friends for them to try. I think he was proud of his little sister for the yummy treat she baked, and she was beaming because we couldn't stop raving about them!
It's a gorgeous day out - hot but not humid, sunny and breezy. That may change, as the weather forecast calls for thunderstorms this afternoon, but we're really hoping that won't happen. My daughter is going to an outdoor wedding this afternoon, and no one wants to go to an outdoor wedding under the rain.
That's it for this week - so far anyway. Here's to wishing everyone a wonderful weekend. God bless!
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